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June 2002

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WINDOWS ON CANADA

Of mothers and daughters

GlobalomNet Media Service

"The reason we don’t have peace is because we don’t reach out in love and tolerance in our hearts and unless we first clean our hearts and souls, and take time to ponder on the fact that when I want peace for myself, my people or my country, I must wish the same peace for others irrespective of who they are." - Raheel Raza


Alka - Megha

Runner Up

 

Sunday May 12, 2002 was a very special day for 8 year old Souha Usman. On this day, she her 11 year old sister Anousha and mum Shahneela were headed towards George Brown House in downtown Toronto to attend a special Mother’s Day event. Although Mother’s Day was celebrated in every corner of Canada with pomp and zest,  this day was exceptional for Souha because she was taking part in a Mother/daughter talent competition later in the day and the excitement was palpable.   

 

The Mother’s Day event organized by Raheel Raza and Bloom magazine was an effort to bring together women from all walks of life and it did just that. Ninety women from varying cultures, faiths and backgrounds congregated at the Morning/Drawing Room of the beautifully restored 1876 Mansion owned by George Brown. Following a scrumptious East meets West style brunch of fresh fruit salad, bread & bagels, cream cheese & spreads, samosas, chicken tikka and chocolate cake, the ladies who ranged from age of 8 to 80, gathered for fun and games.

 

Program commenced with a commemoration to ALL MOTHERS EVERYWHERE IN EVERY CORNER OF THE WORLD.

 

Mothers in war and mothers in peace

Mothers in every strife ridden country of the world from Afghanistan to Zambia

Especially mothers in Palestine and Israel who see their children killed everyday

Mothers of the four Canadian soldiers killed in Afghanistan

Mother Earth and Mothers like you and me

   

This was followed by a Women for Peace project marked by everyone wearing a blue peace ribbon. The host explained “Today is also about peace. It’s important to mention here that peace is a process that begins within ourselves and reaches out. To me there’s no point in going out to lobby or protest in a peace rally when we hate our neighbors or the so called other. Peace and the struggle for peace must be a universal process just like we commemorate mothers universally and not individually.

 

"The reason we don’t have peace is because we don’t reach out in love and tolerance in our hearts and unless we first clean our hearts and souls, and take time to ponder on the fact that when I want peace for myself, my people or my country, I must wish the same peace for others irrespective of who they are.  As women, mothers are nurturers – just imagine if a mother has four children and they decide to become a Muslim, Jew, Christian or Hindu – will she stop loving them? A mother is the only human in the world who loves unconditionally. And this is what we have to do – strive for peace and love unconditionally, across all man-made boundaries.”

 

After a one minute silence for peace, the fun began with a Mother/daughter fashion show of contemporary Spring and Summer fashions from the East.  Make up for the models was done by Vasanti cosmetics who also donated prizes for the raffle.

 

A special fund raising was done for women’s education and empowerment in Afghanistan towards setting up workshops called Mitigating Violence against girls and women based on Human Rights Education. These are being organized by International Network for the Rights of Female Victims of Violence – (INRFVVP)  an internationally recognised organization.

 

In the audience was a singer/song writer/poet and voice teacher who has performed in Carnegie Recital Hall.  Honey Novick directs the Creative vocalization studio as well as the UNESCO-endorsed new songs for peace project. She sings in 7 languages including Japanese, Hebrew, Spanish and Yiddish. Honey got the audience into interactive singing and 2 of the songs she performed are from her current CD.

 

Soon it was time for the talent competition.  The judges were Libby Stephens, editor of the Religion Page at the Toronto Star; Marianne Bai-Wu editor and publisher of Bloom magazine and Caroline Jeba, anchor and producer of South Asian Newsweek at CFMT Television (now with CTV Canada). The judges had a hard time choosing a prize winner because they said all the contestants were wonderful. 

 


 Caroline Jeba  - one of the Judges


Megha  flanked by father Murli and mother Alka

 

However they gave the following prizes:

 

First prize to Shahneela, Anousha and Souha

 

Runner up to Alka and Megha

 

Single prize to Aparita Bhandari

 

Prize for reducing us to tears went to Barbara and Yasmeen

 

Special mention for: Michele, Hilary, Madeline, Charlotte

   

This was followed by a talk on Aromatherapy by Edith Mariani who is a Holistic practitioner and performs Reflexology, Reiki and Aromatherapy massage. Edith explained the importance of education in this field and some of the contra indications. She also donated a prize.